GREENVILLE, Ala. — Toward the end of a math lesson on a sunny Friday in October, fourth-grade teacher D’Atra Howard and math instructional coach LaVeda Gray ducked out of the classroom to huddle.
Nobody told me it would be this quiet. I expected parenting to be hard—everyone warns you about that. But nobody mentioned the specific loneliness of doing it without backup. No mother-in-law swooping ...